Monday, February 8, 2010

The Guy Or The Job?

Tonight, as I watched The Bachelor, I saw a girl be faced with a seemingly tough decision. Should she stay on the show and stay in the running to be Jake's "catch" or should she go back to the real world and return to her job that she was about to lose. For some, this may be a quick choice. For the girl that would decide to stay with the guy, what if he ended up not choosing her in the end? Then, you are heartbroken and you don't have a job. For the girl who chose to stick with what pays the bills, what if that was your last chance to find a guy and you end up alone for the rest of your life?

What would you do if you were faced with the decision of the guy or the job? Both can be rewarding at times, and they can both be a big pain in the ass too. What if you left one behind and decided to change your mind (which it seems like the girl does in next week's episode) and then you can't take back your decision?

There are a lot of "What If's" to think about when faced with a tough decision. Here are a few other things that you should also keep in mind when deciding...

1) If he is dating other girls, stick with the job
2) If you hate your job, stick with the guy
3) If you decide, make sure that you agree with your own decision before you get in the limo
4) Compromise - tell your boss that you will plug the company for free if you can spend more time on vacation
5) Avoid having to make any decisions by not going on a show that makes you leave your job to compete with multiple women for one guy
6) If you decide to leave him for the job, make sure not to look like a crazy lady so that when you call him back to say that you made a bad decision he will actually want to take you back.

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