Obstacle Attraction

For about 75% of yesterday, my Gay Boyfriend and I bitched about men. At first we were done with them. Next, we loved them. Even later, we loathed them. What is it about us that can never seem to find a common ground between each other? We want them to communicate with us, they want us to stop talking. There are so many games that a person has to try to play to keep someone interested. It also ends up that the other person has to play them with you too so that you stay interested.

With all of these games and differences and obstacles, how do two people ever finally get together and stay together? Do they both just have to give in or give up? And since it is so hard to even find that right person, what types of games do you have to play to keep being a couple. Maybe if a couple can get through all of the games and obstacles first, it makes them a better couple in the long run - like winning a prize at the end of a race. It just all seems way too exhausting. There are girls like me out there that run around and say "I don't want a boyfriend." Is that because I really don't want one or because I don't feel like putting in the effort? It is kind of like going to the gym...it sounds like a good idea, it's just so much darn work!