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I recently received my first blog comment....YAY!

Lulu,

I don't have boobs or good hair days.  What suggestions do you have?

Vicki

The biggest suggestion that I have for you is to SMILE!  Smiling makes you look confident, interested, and approachable.  According to a very insightful book that I just read, entitled "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man" by Steve Harvey, a man loves a confident lady.  He wants to know that she takes pride in herself and is generally a happy person.  

Honestly, what man is going to look twice at a woman who has a scowl on her face?  If it is the first time he is seeing you, his first impression would be that you are 1. angry 2. bitter 3. bitchy or 4. all of the above.  If he already knows you or is in a relationship with you, he is going to run in the opposite direction.  The last thing that he wants is to be yelled at or be told to take out the trash.  A stern face will automatically tip him off to this.  (And if you are asking him to take out the trash, wouldn't it just be nicer to do it with a grin :)

If you always wear a smile (even if you don't have boobs or good hair days) he will at least assume that you are a generally nice person with a good and confident attitude.  A smile says that you are approachable and that you will most likely say hello to him if he comes over to you.  That man does not want to be rejected by anyone and a flash of your pearly whites basically hints to him that it is okay to come over and introduce himself.  Again, if you are in a relationship or know this person already, a smile lightens the mood a little.  

Try smiling at him while staring for awhile.  Most likely he will become uncomfortable and ask "What are you smiling about?"  Your response..."You" and then smile again.  It will make him think a little and it is just a nice way to let him know that you are happy when you think of him, without saying that in so many words. (If this makes him think that you have gone completely mad, tell him to go and do the dishes - with a smile of course!)

Again, you want a guy to approach you and begin a conversation.  The fastest way to invite him to do that without going up to him yourself, is a smile.

I hope that helped a little Vicki!